hey I’m gonna fix all discourse real quick, watch this
1) mind your own fucking business
2) take care of your own mental health first before attempting to dictate to others how to care for theirs
3) nothing about the human experience is binary, any attempts to simplify existence down into two categories of good or bad/right or wrong will fail because there will always, ALWAYS be someone or something that cannot be categorized. Doing this to human beings is oppressive.
4) what nourishes the lily drowns the cactus. your wounds heal differently than others. respect that other people know their needs better than you do, and stop trying to change peoples needs when they don’t suit yours.